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Go to the Rod of God and read some of these verses when you are looking to resolve conflict with your spouse.

Here are some Bible verses that provide guidance on conflict resolution within Christian marriages:

1. Matthew 5:23-24 (NIV): “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”

2. Ephesians 4:26-27 (NIV): “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.”

3. Ephesians 4:31-32 (NIV): “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

4. Colossians 3:13-14 (NIV): “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

5. Proverbs 15:1 (NIV): “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

6. James 1:19-20 (NIV): “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.”

7. Proverbs 17:14 (NIV): “Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.”

8. Romans 12:17-18 (NIV): “Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

9. 1 Peter 3:8-9 (NIV): “Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.”

10. Proverbs 20:3 (NIV): “It is to one’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel.”

These verses emphasize principles such as reconciliation, forgiveness, humility, patience, and the importance of peaceful resolution in marital conflicts, all of which are essential for fostering harmony and unity within Christian marriages.

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Back to the basics on communicating with your Spouse!

Here are some Bible verses that provide guidance on communication within Christian marriages:

1. Proverbs 18:13 (NIV): “To answer before listening— that is folly and shame.”

2. Proverbs 15:1 (NIV): “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

3. Ephesians 4:29 (NIV): “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”

4. Proverbs 12:18 (NIV): “The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.”

5. James 1:19 (NIV): “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”

6. Proverbs 15:28 (NIV): “The heart of the righteous weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil.”

7. Proverbs 25:11 (NIV): “Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a ruling rightly given.”

8. Colossians 4:6 (NIV): “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”

9. Proverbs 16:24 (NIV): “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.”

10. Ephesians 4:15 (NIV): “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”

These verses highlight the importance of listening, speaking with kindness and wisdom, using words to build up rather than tear down, and speaking truthfully but with love. Effective communication is essential for understanding, resolving conflicts, and nurturing intimacy in Christian marriages.

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Here are a few good scriptures to get you on track FAST!

1. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV): “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

   
   

2. Ephesians 5:25 (NIV): “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

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   Ephesians 5:33 (NIV): “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”

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   Song of Solomon 8:6-7 (NIV): “Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away. If one were to give all the wealth of one’s house for love, it would be utterly scorned.”

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   1 John 4:19 (NIV): “We love because he first loved us.”

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   Colossians 3:14 (NIV): “And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

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   Romans 12:9-10 (NIV): “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

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   1 Peter 4:8 (NIV): “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”

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   John 15:12 (NIV): “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.”

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    Proverbs 10:12 (NIV): “Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.”

These verses emphasize the sacrificial, selfless, and enduring nature of love within Christian marriages, modeled after the love of Christ for the Church. Love is portrayed as foundational to the relationship between spouses, fostering unity, respect, and mutual care.